The problem is you, as a normal human being, have pre-programmed biological survival strategies that take over when you face certain situations.
And they are keeping you from being the parent you want to be.
It’s also highly likely your mind has been conditioned to believe that the only way to get a child to behave is by controlling them—because that’s what your parents did.
But what if you knew the REAL SECRET to having a well-behaved child...and it had nothing to do with controlling their behavior?
What I’ve discovered is that children don’t behave badly because they want to or because they are bad children.
They’re just being children.
And the best way to stop bad behavior is to make them feel safe and understood.
That’s hard to do when you’ve been taught your whole life that children need to be punished for bad behavior.
I know because I was a struggling parent, just like you, who tried to control my child’s behavior so I could FEEL like I was being a good mother.
Unfortunately, this only resulted in feelings of: